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Monday, 4 June 2018

Crushed Fantasy

Farizana Savage June 04, 2018 Uber

Wandering in the streets of Osu, beating myself up of how careless I could be.

Three hours ago, I thought I had it all figured out but I guess I didn’t start my day well.

I woke up with excitement , prayed and quickly dash out for an interview. The interview went well and I was soo excited about my new investors. I couldn’t wait for all the documents to be finalized. With excitement, I decided to call my best friend, Tsiwah for some ice cream to celebrate.

Tsiwah and I have been friends for over ten (10) years. She is my ride or ride. A single entrepreneur and very ambitious.

We spoke till I got a taxi to quickly meet her up at Pinkberry. The taxi moved from Papaye heading towards Labone. I was so excited that I couldn’t wait to share my joy with my best friend.

When we got to KFC, I decided to cash some money at the nearest ATM. I quickly rushed out of the car and went straight to the machine but it was out of service like any typical four out of five ATMs, I turned and the taxi, my hand bag and heels were all gone.

Oh Lord of Mercy and compassion, my ruined day had just began. All this happened so fast. No money to pick a car, This left me frustrated in the middle of Osu. All I had left was just me and my phone. Ohhhh Yes, talking about phones, It clicked my mind to request for Uber and pay with my card or mobile money.

The Uber arrived in about five minutes and I sat in like a Queen with no cash, lol. Oh my God, manna from heaven, how did you find yourself behind the wheels. The Uber driver was finneeeee. I checked my makeup and breath , just to be sure I was good to go. We had a pretty good chit chat throughout the journey till I got to my destination.

When we got to Pinkberry, Tsiwah had left and I had no money to pay the Uber driver. But I thought I had money in my mobile money account and even on my card. Everything seemed so weird and abnormal. The Uber driver offered to take me home for free and pay him some other time.

I thought that was amazing and anyone could hardly find such drivers lately. Some drivers will insult you and think you got all that planned out.

I had no option than to hop back in for that free ride. We had an amazing trip back to my house. He was funny, a picture freak and hey before I forget, he was using an iPhone X. Hahahaha, it felt like meeting a prince in disguise, finding the perfect bride.

We finally reached my house and we had to say goodbye. “It was great meeting you”, i said and added, “hey, next time I meet you, I will dance with you”. We hugged but it felt weird again, like something way too heavy on me. The next thing I heard was Jackie’s voice.

Jackie is my niece. She is 2years old and she is the most adorable and smart kid I have ever seen. My room is the first place she comes when she wakes up. Her voice was becoming too loud in my ears, I opened my eyes and there she was in her pyjamas.

Seriously, that whole mixed up feelings day was just a dream? I smiled and hoped to dance with him anytime I really see him, like in the movies.

THE ‘QUICK JUDGES’

Farizana Savage November 17, 2017 yvonne nelson

Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven: (Luke 6:37)

The Holy Bible clearly stated that we should not judge, but the majority of human beings have decided to forget the consequences of judging someone; that you will also be judged. We open our mouths to talk about others like we have not stepped on the planet earth full of sin before.

Why don’t you drink water and mind your own business!

All of us have rotten bones in our cupboard but don’t make it a habit to jump into conclusion and talk about someone’s misfortune. The fact that you didn’t have that experience doesn’t mean your situation is any different.

Who are you to judge your fellow man! What is your business in someone’s choices? Remember, God gave us the will to make choices, he only wished or entreated us to choose right. If you won’t choose the path someone has chosen, it doesn’t give you the right to judge them or impose your choices on them.

Recently, Yvonne Nelson posted about her pregnancy and the ‘quick judges’ started throwing tantrum. Is it your life? Is it your body? Is it your pregnancy? She only posted her picture to inform and you are only entitled to your opinion, not your judgement!

The funny thing is those who keep judging others always have a lesser life than the person they are judging! Imagine the level of Yvonne Nelson and a university student who hasn’t yet seen anything in life is judging her. AAAAAAHHHHHHBA!!! How many of our parents got married before starting a family? Check your life, from you to your family members before you judge.

A celebrity posted Bobrisky’s picture to wish him a happy birthday and the comments to the post were terrible. Bobrisky chose to be whoever he is and he didn’t need your permission to do that. Nobody is less of a human being than others. The fact that his path does not seem ‘normal’ to you does not make it abnormal or out of the world. STOP JUDGING!

For what is worth, keep your negative opinions to yourself, rather, encourage, congratulate, be proud of others and gain weight or lose weight. Drink water and mind your business!

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Tuesday, 11 July 2017

THE SIMPLE THINGS

Farizana Savage July 11, 2017 women

When I first met you, it was magical even though you hit my car, you ruined my birthday cake and my birthday!

You gave me your business card and I bluntly refused and you insisted on a lunch date, with that sweet smile I accepted.

We started off as friends, you were kind, caring, loving, generous and a gentleman! You bought me gifts every time we met.

You made promises to protect and love me even more! Promises upon promises. I never frowned or cried. Your presence was just joy unspeakable, I smiled each day just knowing I will hear from you or see you at my door with roses and chocolates!

Then we got married! Marriage was suppose to be a blessing but that blessing turned into something else.

Do you even remember all the promises you made? All of them?

You stopped buying gifts for me! Those little things made me smile but you stopped doing them! Now my beautiful face can't remember the last time it smiled.

Opening doors became a big deal to you! I never asked you to start but I fell in love with that too. What came over you? Cause being with you now feels like I'm living a lie.

Ohhhh! The worse part of all was when you made it seem you always cooked for me. I had a man to help me when I was tired or sick but I swallowed your lie when I realized you only bought the food from restaurants!

I picked an attitude to frustrate you just to know how you made me feel cause I was tired of complaining and talking! I got soo tired, unwanted and depressed! Depression moved me to eat sooo much and grew fat. But still didn't see anything wrong with what you were doing to me!
Now my heart aches when i see you!

Love, love makes you make difficult promises, they may seem simple and small but giants in their own way!

I worked things out with my husband and I am the voice for women going through what I went through.

Don't stop reminding him of what he is doing wrong! Don't stop praying! Don't stop talking the word!

Things will fall in place with time!

See also WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP

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Monday, 10 July 2017

NATURAL FACIAL REMEDY

Farizana Savage July 10, 2017 Rhub tips

Things Needed Quantity

Lemon 1/2

Tomato 1/2

Honey 1tsp

Towel Tissue

Strainer

PROCEDURE

Wash your face with warm water.
Wipe with tissue.
Squeeze tomato and lemon juice into strainer and drain into a neat container.
Add honey and stir mixture.
Apply on your face and leave for 20 minutes.
Wash your face with warm water and cold water after.
Dab with tissue and moisturize your face.

Do this three times a week.

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Thursday, 6 July 2017

WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP

Farizana Savage July 06, 2017 women

They say women are complicated and don’t really know what they want. Women are said to have long books of complications. Women are complicated but at least they can be seen through easily.

There are so many books and articles on how to understand a woman but few on men. I think men are more complicated than women, which is why there are few solutions on how to understand them.

A man will say he doesn’t want his girlfriend to care too much but has a problem if she tends to be carefree. As a girlfriend, you are the first to say good morning to him and the last person you talk to before sleeping. His need is your need and you always want to be in his good books but then, he complains you care too much. Caring for him might not be an act, so you go through a lot just to not really care again, and now he complains or starts to act up. WHAT DO THEY REALLY WANT?

A man will tell his girlfriend he doesn’t like to be asked too many questions, especially the question “where are you?” but that’s the first question they ask when they call. Most men don’t like questions not for any genuine reason but for the fact that they can’t be consistent and also makes them feel they are being too open and plain with you. His girlfriend stops asking questions and he complains she acts too naive and again carefree. Amazing Creatures right! lol!

WHAT THEY REALLY WANT?

TO FEEL LIKE YOUR HERO

Every man wants to feel like the hero, to save the day. They don’t want to be your Clark Kent but your Superman. Sometimes, give them that opportunity or create that opportunity for him to feel he saved the day.

ACCEPTANCE

Men also need some loving. Because they NEED to feel that when they stack the dishes in the sink like a five year-old, say the wrong thing in front of your friends, leave the toilet seat up, get too logical, forget something you’ve said a thousand times, that you love them anyways. Because inside every man is a boy who forgets he’s a man sometimes. And every boy gets into things, not because he’s bad but because he’s got a curious mind. Unconditional support from a woman is what will snap them out of their boyish behavior and inject them with a desire to be a stronger man. Only when you accept them as they are, who they are, will they want to become someone better.

NOT TO BE LEFT IN THE DARK

Many women don’t tell their men how they feel because they don’t want to rock the boat, or they’re afraid. The truth is when you don’t express yourself, you leave men in the dark. They don’t really know the truth of you. You are prepackaging and presenting parts of your life instead of doing your whole life with them.

THE C-WORD

Effective Communication! Without it, relationships are built on sand. A man wants his partner to communicate directly not give clues. Spell out what you want clearly, don’t beat about the bush or give attitude and expect him to understand. He is not a soothsayer to read your mind. If you want them to want to do the dishes, OK, then tell them. Explain and model how you would like them to communicate back.

For many man, communication is not a speciality. They need some guidance. Generally speaking, men tend to pull from a logical place. Women pull from an emotional place. If you can meet them at logic, they will match your emotions, hopefully. But they need you to tell them.

TO HAVE THEIR OWN LIVES

Men may not say it, because how do you tell the person you love to get a life? But they really want their partner to have their own life. Really, men want their partners to have their own set of friends, activities, and passions. Of course your husband or boyfriend want to be supportive of everything you care about and be a part of anything you would like them to be a part of, but they want you to have your own identity.

Because if you have nothing that is yours, the relationship is standing on one leg. Also, if you have your own life, it forces your man to get his own life as well or risk losing you. Forget legs, put your relationship on wheels. One is yours. One is his. And together, you’ll ride.

All in all, my advice to all women is: DO EXACTLY WHAT A MAN SAYS YOU SHOULD NOT DO (not the bad behaviours and attitudes, but that cute thing he discourages you from doing). Whatever you do that he complains about, actually gets to him and makes him soft, therefore, he doesn’t want to seem vulnerable. Don’t worry, he will stop complaining.

Thursday, 22 June 2017

NANA AMA MCBROWN EVEN PRETTIER IN PERSON

Farizana Savage June 22, 2017 pretty

Ghana's hottest movie star, Felicity Ama Agyemang, popularly known as Nana Ama Mcbrown is much more prettier in person than in pictures and in movies.

Her humor and liveliness is not just in movies and Tv shows, she is a blast in person.

Her fans are her number "two" priority and she never shuns a fan no matter what.

The African beauty at 43, still has this radiant skin and infectious smile compelling everyone to pause when she enters a room.

Keep soaring Nana!! We love you!!

Thursday, 8 June 2017

5 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR MAN LAST LONGER IN BED

Farizana Savage June 08, 2017 sex

5 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR MAN LAST LONGER IN BED

As a woman, you must know how to make your man happy in bed. You should be able to control him in bed for your pleasure and his pleasure too. These are 5 ways to get your man up and running for as long as you want. Sexual drugs are not the solution, you are!

1. BE NEAT AND APPEALING

As a lady, your topmost priority must be your body. Every part of your body must be given equal and careful attention. Wash your body very well, especially your armpit and vagina. Use just water to clean your vagina. All these vagina washes and soaps don’t help. Keep the pubic hairs down and neatly trimmed. Have your natural body smell right and add a bit of a mild perfume to spice it up. Girl, you are good to go!

2. LOOK SEXY AND ATTRACTIVE

Men are moved by what their eyes see. Wear an attractive monochrome bra and a comfortable under pant, you can try tongs or a laced pant and wear a see- through lingerie over it. Preferably, wear what he likes.

3. INITIATE THE SEX

Men are tired of always starting the sex moves. They find it much attractive when their partner initiates sex. Girl, be smart and creative. Send him mind blowing (sexting) messages at work. Get him to come home earlier than he should. Let him lie down and twerk for him. Give him a strip dance and get him hard without a touch. Don’t be too quick to jump on his dick, relax and be patient.

4. DOMINATE

He always does the work, be on top this time. Whisper things you plan to do to him. Kiss him from his head to his toes. His nipple need some loving, lick and suck softly. Be on a mid-tempo, not too fast and not too slow. Let him crave for you. Give him a blow job for the first ejaculation, lie down in his arms, give soft kisses, talk about something funny and continue with a fore-play after some few minutes of relaxing.

5. SWITCH SEX POSITIONS AND SEX MOODS

Distraction is one good thing with sex and for your man to last long. Most men think of not ejaculating early but that thought alone gets them to do so. Distract them with new sex positions you have never tried with him before. The more awkward and unfamiliar, the better! When he's about to orgasm, have him stop and wait about a minute or so before going back at it. Squeeze the base of his penis, this is an old one, you can do this with your hand. It’s quite literally stops him from ejaculating. Think of it like bending a hose in half to stop the flow of water, but definitely do not bend his penis in half under any circumstances. Just give it a firm grip.

NB: A THICK CONDOM CAN BE ANOTHER BEST OPTION!

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Friday, 2 June 2017

SOULMATE VS PARTNER

Farizana Savage June 02, 2017 Soulmate

Am I not funny enough to be with and really, Am I that boring? How do you want me to feel? We have been together for two years! We have made love, we have hated, we have fought, we have loved, we have wished we never crossed path and our hearts wished to stop beating when we kiss.

Through all these, we still love so hard. We never hope to give up anytime soon even when it seems hopeless.

My partner is boring! We only chat a few times in a day, we hardly call each other and our voices are lost in each other’s memory. I wonder what keeps us together?

We hold each other’s heart, our memories run through the mind of our eyes!

The nicely packaged person, too good to be true or even exist, there is the bad side and the good but the good always overshadows the bad, I feel it’s pretence because he is bad as far as I can see, a confused personality. Blind in love that you can’t feel the fire burning too high, can’t even feel the heat. Sometimes in the mood and mostly not in the mood. Anger, fear, bitterness, sweetness, love, all sort of mixed feelings, but we are made for each other.

My soulmate wears a dress of an angel, bright and white as snow. Always smiling and cracking jokes. Seeing each other brings a spark of fulfilment and accomplishment to our world, we play and mostly laugh all the time. Why are we not together? Why I’m I wasting my time with someone who is always serious, no jokes, no laughter.

We are right for each other. We understand each other and the bond we share is sharper than a two- edged sword. Always complimenting each other like the very first time we met. All the good things needed in a parcel. The chemistry is always great.

Not all that glitter is gold. Not all intimacy, connection and chemistry is love.

You are either a partner or a soulmate. One out of a million can be both.

Who are you, A partner or A soulmate?

Who do you prefer to be with, A partner or A soulmate?

Choose carefully…

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Tuesday, 30 May 2017

HEEL WARS Chapter 3

Farizana Savage May 30, 2017 shoe

It felt like the longest sleep ever and very difficult to open my eyes. I could feel severe headaches and chills all over my body. The air I was breathing wasn’t fresh, much more like breathing from a life support.

I opened my eyes and everything looked very blur. It was very difficult to carry myself up or even talk. I moved my hand and it touched someone. “Oh no, Richard is still here”, I thought. I opened my eyes, where am I? The room didn’t look like my room.

Richard quickly woke up and sounded so happy. He told me to relax and went out of the room. I was lost and confused. Tried to get out of the bed and I realized I had a drip on me with all sort of small cables on my chest and at my back. THE HOSPITAL?

Richard came back with a doctor who did a thorough check up on me and administered injections and also changed my drip dose. When he left, I asked Richard what happened and how long I have been at the hospital. “You fainted in my arms”, he said. “I rushed you to the hospital and you have been unconscious for three days”, he added. He picked his phone and called my mum that I was finally up. I thought, three days was so long. After some few minutes, the doctor came back. I asked him what was wrong with me and I got quite a shocking response.

He asked, “Do you wear heels and how often do you wear? “Yes Sir, I wear heels almost everyday, the only time I don’t wear heels is when I’m sleeping”, I answered. I was very scared of what next he was going to say. He said, “Madam you have a disease called osteoarthritis”. It is a joint disease or “wear and tear” arthritis, most common chronic condition of the joints. It occurs when the cartilage or cushion between joints breaks down leading to pain, stiffness and swelling and pain. “It has affected your hips and knees”, he added.

I started crying, I couldn’t bare the pain and the fact that I wasn’t going to wear heels for six months after the surgery and also reduce wearing heels for the rest of my life.

Richard was helpful throughout the six months of no heels. He used to tease me a lot and also had the keys to my shoe closet. The first few months wasn’t easy for me. I felt awkward wearing flat shoes to work everyday. I looked short and down like an SHS student.

After six months, Richard opened my closet and the room looked dead with all my shoes dusty. I used the weekend to clean them up and went back to my routine of wearing my best friends again.

Wearing heels or not is a choice everybody needs to make on their own. It can make you feel confident, bossy, powerful, feminine and so on but you have to also consider your life and the side effects it can bring to you. I always wore heels but my ordeal thought me things in another perspective.

There is a saying that “Beauty is pain”, but never let the pain take your life.

Come to think of it, I feel pretty good wearing flat shoes and sandals mixed up with my heel collection. I feel healthy and better.

THE END.

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Saturday, 27 May 2017

HEEL WARS Chapter 2

Farizana Savage May 27, 2017 wars

Having it all doesn’t make me entirely happy. I have the perfect job, good money, my dream house, my dream car and great friends. But things are not entirely how it seems. Entering my shoe closet every morning brings smiles on my face. I have all types of heels; the wedge, platform, strap and others in different colours from a whole lot of designers. I buy heels every week. My entire shoe closet can pay a university undergraduate school fees and even hostel fees for four years. People have a lot of reasons for what they do or say or wear but I love to wear heels everyday because it symbolizes power. Every woman loves power and that what I have everyday.

I walked inside the office and my eyes popped…

Felix was wearing my brand new ASOS Peru pointed high heels, imitating how I walk in the office. He is good, "lol". If that wasn’t enough, all the women in my office were wearing heels.

Mrs. Atiobi was wearing the black colour of my “tasty red velvet”. Best Monday ever! They welcomed me with laughter and teasing. It was indeed a good day. I felt they understood, accepted and appreciated me.

Work was a bit slow, all I kept doing was watch music videos and online shoe shopping. The day finally ended and I was still the last person to leave. I felt very tired and stressed. My feet were hurting with sharp back pains.

The pains were on and off, so I managed to drive. Accra traffic can be very annoying most of the times. You can be in traffic for thirty minutes without moving, stuck between careless 'trotro' drivers, blowing their horn on you like an aimless animal wandering in the middle of the street. All the possible short routes were even worse with massive traffic and bad roads.

I got home very late. That was a bit unusual of me. I lazily got down from my car straight to my door, I tried opening the door and realized it was already opened. “Only one person could be there if not a thief”, I thought to myself. I got inside and found Richard sleeping on my couch. But where is his car and why is he in my house at that hour? “I hope he isn’t sleeping over”, I thought to myself.

Richard is my best friend, we have known each other for the longest time. Ten years down the road and still counting. He is my confidant and soulmate but we will suck as partners, so remaining best of friends was our best option.

I woke him up and the first thing he said was, “I’m hungry, please get me food before I collapse”. I dropped my bag and went to the kitchen still wearing my heels. Richard likes to see me do everything in heels, he says it’s attractive and gives a woman composure. He even wishes to see me wash in heels, 'lol'. I mixed up ingredients and prepared something quick for us to eat. He ate like he hasn’t eaten for months and he likes food too. He helped me clean up and I packed his belongings to drop him at home even though I was tired. He was a bit surprised I was rushing him out of my house. Then he dropped the gist I had been waiting for since we started eating.

“I had a quarrel with my girlfriend in the morning and I can’t even stand her presence, so can I sleep here tonight?” He asked politely and with a stressed face. I was too tired to ask him for details, so I kissed him goodnight. His touch was so warm and it felt so good. He hugged me tighter but soft. I guess I needed that and more after a stressful day.

Everything happened pretty fast…

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Wednesday, 24 May 2017

HEEL WARS Chapter 1

Farizana Savage May 24, 2017 wars

I woke up early in the morning feeling chills and weak. The thought of going to work on Monday was more devastating. “Should I go to work or continue to sleep and call to ask permission from work”, I thought. I rolled in bed to and fro contemplating on a perfect scenario when my phone started ringing. No! No! No! Your guess should be right, my boss was calling.

It’s not easy to be the Personal Assistant to the CEO of Dream Petroleum. Dream Petroleum is one of the biggest Petroleum Company in Ghana. A family owned business with projects all over Ghana and the world. They have employed over 400 people who are paid not less than GHC 2000 monthly. Yes, very rich company.

I had to rush to work after talking to my boss! But when I say rush, my make up has to still be on point and not forgetting my high heels.

High heels are my first love and best friend whenever. They have my back each day, boosting my ‘swag’ and making me feel confident. They make me walk like a boss, especially when I walk singing “walk of shame” by Meaghan Trainor, lol! My heels give me that feminine touch, boost my stature and the best part is, it sways my hips just right. Mmmmmmmm I love heels.

Mrs. Atiobi, the receptionist has a problem with me wearing heels. She complains everyday. And I always look forward to her complains because she calls the attention of all the men to look at me. The best feeling any woman would want. All eyes on her because she looks good. I think Mrs. Atiobi is just jealous and talks too much although her comments brightens up my day.

I got to work earlier, not meeting anyone, not even Mrs. Atiobi. I went straight to my office, took the documents, copied some projects on a new pen drive and prepared to step out. That was what my boss instructed me to do and meet him at the airport before his three days business trip.

Although I missed Mrs. Atiobi’s comments, I was happy because I wore her “favorite” of all my heels. She calls it “tasty red velvet”, lol. She would have wasted my time worrying me, teasing and definitely a request for red velvet cupcake from Cupcake Boutique. I had to be thankful!

I dashed out of the office, straight to the airport. As usual, my boss was not there yet. While I was waiting, I touched up my make-up and hair to make sure I’m still on point. Finally, he arrived and took the items, not forgetting to be give me his usual teasing smile and the long awaited compliment.

With smiles on my face, I drove straight to a café shop, got my latte and straight back to work.

I got to the office and got the shock of my life…..

SAVAGE RHUB

Monday, 4 June 2018

Crushed Fantasy

Friday, 17 November 2017

THE ‘QUICK JUDGES’

Tuesday, 11 July 2017

THE SIMPLE THINGS

Monday, 10 July 2017

NATURAL FACIAL REMEDY

Thursday, 6 July 2017

WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP

Thursday, 22 June 2017

NANA AMA MCBROWN EVEN PRETTIER IN PERSON

Thursday, 8 June 2017

5 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR MAN LAST LONGER IN BED

Friday, 2 June 2017

SOULMATE VS PARTNER

Tuesday, 30 May 2017

HEEL WARS Chapter 3

Saturday, 27 May 2017

HEEL WARS Chapter 2

Wednesday, 24 May 2017

HEEL WARS Chapter 1

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